Building and maintaining a strong bond in any relationship takes intentionality, consistent effort, and a whole lot of selflessness. This past weekend, my husband and I celebrated six beautiful years together. Over time, we’ve discovered a handful of practices that have not only helped us grow individually, but also kept our relationship thriving. These aren’t grand gestures or complicated routines. They’re simple yet meaningful habits that help us stay connected, grounded, and in love.

So, in celebration of six incredible years, I’m sharing six things we do to keep the spark alive and our bond unshakable:

1. We Pray Together
You’ve heard the saying, “A family that prays together stays together.” For us, it’s more than just a catchy phrase—it’s a lifestyle. Prayer and devotion are sacred moments of connection where we share our gratitude, hopes, and fears with God. With Him as the constant “third party” in our relationship and an integral part of our union, we feel anchored, supported, and whole.

2. We Take an Annual Baecation
Every year, around our anniversary, we carve out time for an intentional getaway—a time to reflect, celebrate, and dream about the future. It’s not just about relaxation (though we love that part too!); it’s also a chance to ruminate on the past year, highlight our wins and accomplishments, and strategize for the year ahead. We spend time in prayer, gratitude, and just soaking in the joy of being together.

3. We Do Something Thoughtful for Each Other Every Day
Acts of love don’t have to be extraordinary to be impactful. Small, consistent acts of thoughtfulness go a long way. Whether it’s a kind word, a heartfelt note, or a warm hug after a long day, we make it a point to do something thoughtful for each other every day. These small, consistent gestures remind us how much we’re loved and appreciated.

4. We Make Time for Real Conversations and Fun
Life can get busy, but we never let it take priority over us. Every week, we set aside time to reconnect with each other deeply. We catch up on life—sharing, listening, and reflecting—and then do something fun together. These moments aren’t just about the activity, but about nurturing our friendship and creating lasting memories.

5. We Keep Growing Together
Growth is an ongoing journey for us, and we’re committed to growing together. We regularly identify areas where we can improve, both individually and as a couple, and tackle them with intention. This could mean diving into themed devotions, reading and discussing books, watching helpful videos, or listening to podcasts. Whatever it takes, we make learning and evolving a shared priority.

6. We Fight as a Team
Life isn’t always smooth sailing, but we’ve learned that facing challenges together is the key to staying afloat. We remind ourselves that we’re always on the same team. No matter what comes our way, we fight for each other, never against each other.

These six habits have been foundational in keeping our relationship strong, joyful, and purposeful. Every relationship is unique, but I hope these practices inspire you to discover what works best for building a deeper connection and lasting love in your own journey.

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